Happy Mother's Day, not Happy Jail Day! Here is the question that a listener sent in and needs some advice.

Pam writes, "My husband, Dale, really wants to take our three-year-old son to visit his mother for Mother’s day. Normally I wouldn’t mind us going to visit his mother, except for one thing … she’s in prison."

Pam needs some suggestions of what to do.

Dale’s mom, who has been locked up for embezzling, is dying to see her only grandson. But, I’m sorry – I don’t feel it’s OK to expose a toddler to that kind of thing.

Dale says it’ll be totally fine, but I’m just not comfortable taking our son there?

What should I do?